You are more than you might think you are.
The social constructs tend to make us feel restricted and we get used to adjusting and compromising to fit into them. When we do that we lose our identity as an individual and it starts becoming relative to those who are around us.
But when we look beyond these constructs, when we look at ourselves as an independent individual with unrestricted dreams and desires, we find a new kind of freedom and identity, one that is not limited, one that is ambitious and generous. That is our best self, and that is who we should strive to be.