Who do you want on your side?
When I was young, we played cricket on the roof (I miss that a lot). One thing we used to do is to select 2 captains and then each person would select one of the players to be on their team.
Who do you select first? Who do you select last? Why?
Would you select yourself first if you were the captain and you had a choice?
Can you start seeing yourself as a person who everyone wants to select first?
“If you have me in your team, you don’t need much else.” is a story that we can invent and live by.