Pushing through resistance.

Resistance does not go away on its own. If we listen to it, it will push us away from our work. And the more we listen, the more powerful it becomes. The only way to counter this is to push through resistance, to get something tangible done. The more we

Money and emotions.

Earning money is a skill. A skill that involves creating the conditions with intent that lead to consistent and sufficient income.  Allocating or spending money is a different skill, one that requires us to prioritise investment over expenses and build a system that helps us do this in a sane

Being a contribution.

From The Art of Possibility by Ben & Rosamund Zander Strolling along the edge of the sea, a man catches sight of a young woman who appears to be engaged in a ritual dance. She stoops down, then straightens to her full height, casting her arm out in an arc.

Decoding stress.

Stress is a sign of trying to force change the way things are. How can we instead embrace the way things are? How can we be aligned with the way things are, including our feelings about the way things are?

Early signs.

We have a tendency to ignore the early signs: A not-so-loud noise that starts coming from the car engine. A flicker in the overhead light that happens every now and then. A general sense of being out of creative and productive juice when we sit down to work. A subtle

Sunk costs.

Decisions made in the past are not relevant to the decisions to be made in the present or in the future. It's imperative to choose to decide based on the facts that we know right now and where we are going. We can choose to ignore everything else

Do what you can.

Some days can be hard. Emotions can get the best of us. What we can do on those days is to do what we can. If we keep doing that, we are more likely than not to get back on the boat. ...the metaphor “out of the boat” signifies more

Even if you don't feel like it...

Waiting for inspiration is a luxury a professional can’t afford. That belongs to the amateur. The professional gets done what's expected of her, even if she doesn't feel like it, especially when she doesn’t feel like it.

Letting go of assumptions.

Assumptions can hold us back from opening ourselves to possibility. The more we invest in them, the more they can turn into attachments. But, when we choose to let go of them, when we can look at them without judgement, we can act and create the conditions for what we

Doing the creative work first.

As we work on our creative projects, all kinds of urgencies tend to pop up on a recurring basis. The tendency to cater to the urgencies and then try to come back to the work is very tempting. But it becomes an uphill climb. Better to do the work first.

Assuming that there's no child story.

The strongest child story is to assume that there is no child story. The biggest resistance is to assume that there is no resistance. We can’t work on a problem we are not willing to accept we have. …and all the while you, like everyone else, take pride in

Bird by bird.

“...I also remember a story that I know I’ve told elsewhere but that over and over helps me to get a grip: thirty years ago my older brother, who was ten years old at the time, was trying to get a report on birds written that he’d had

Getting good at projects...

If a project fails, it doesn't do your work or your idea justice. Getting good at projects give you the freedom to do your work. ~ Seth Godin Check out Seth's course on getting good at projects below. Get It Done: Complete Projects that Matter with Seth

Emotions and decision making.

Emotional decisions are different from those made based on intuition. They have a different texture too. We can identify whether our decisions are based on emotions or intuition based on the intensity behind them. When emotions make us go ahead with decisions, they are led by our child parts. They

Possibility lies beyond fear.

"This might not work." ~ Seth Godin When we are too afraid to let go of what was, or what could have been, our actions get driven by fear and insecurity. The child parts in us take over and they seek certainty because for them this is all about

Safe is risky.

The voice of fear is cunning and it persuades us to always choose the safer option, the option that lets things stay the way they are. And so, things remain as they are. For a professional, for a change-maker, possibility and growth are the only options. The last thing we

Thinking is Resistance's territory...

...and so is talking. But writing, and that too, writing with intent, is where Resistance is at its weakest. When we sit down to write what needs to get done and then move forward to get it done, we take the power away from Resistance. Most of us have two

3 kinds of shipping.

A note: I learned the idea of the 3 kinds of shipping from a fellow participant in The Creative's Workshop by Seth Godin which is now part of a thriving global creative community at purple.space. 3 kinds: shipping. Shipping. SHIPPING. "shipping" is for the people

What assumptions are you making...

...that are stopping you from moving forward? What story are you telling yourself that has led to these assumptions? What story can you choose to tell that can help you let go of them and make better assertions?

Compassion over judgement.

The easiest way to be off the hook is to judge other people for their resistance. That feeling of judgement puts us on a (superficial) high ground. And stops us from fighting our own resistance. All we can do is to fight our own demons. For others, as well as

Child stories.

When you find yourself ready to bolt from a relationship, or hanging on to one that is going nowhere, or frightened about the future, or feeling insecure in a group; when you are driving people crazy with your efforts to get things under control, or are unable to take steps

Willing change into existence.

Stress arises when we try to will change into existence, especially when we are not happy with the way things are. But that's not how change happens. Change happens when we create the conditions for it to happen. And it takes as much time as it needs for

Who do you want to serve?

That's a trap question. Instead, the question could be, “Who wants to be served?” There is a natural order to things and we can align ourselves to that order. There are audiences desperately wanting to pay someone to solve their problem, more so, they are looking for someone

The anatomy of commitment.

There's desire and then, there's resolve. A lot of people have a desire to be healthy, but only a few have the resolve to not miss a workout, to eat healthier, to take care of themselves. Commitment means nothing until something is at stake whether it&

Listening to fear.

Fear mostly tells us what not to do, what to avoid so that things remain the way they are. The problem with listening to fear is that it can become a habit. And that habit can make our health, our work and our relationships stagnate. On the contrary, building the