Why not now? What action step will move your project forward? What's stopping you from taking that action? We can spend hours, or sometimes decades, waiting to take action. How is delaying the action helping you?
Choosing constraints. Constraints help move our project forward if they are chosen with intent. But they can significantly hinder progress if they are there by default, or by cruft. Which constraints would you choose if you had a choice? Which constraints are there for no good reason? How can you eliminate them?
The idea that slipped... ...might come back, might not. But if we keep searching, we may find others that may surprise us. The brain is an idea machine. All we need to do is ask.
Lightness... ...is the opposite of darkness. ...and is the opposite of heaviness. When we act as a light, we feel lighter. And, when we feel lighter, we start acting as a light. That's how our best self is and feels.
Illusions... The sunset is an illusion. The sun isn't moving. The earth is moving. But the eyes don't believe it even when they know it. The one who has more ideas doesn't write more. The one who writes more generates (and writes) more ideas. HT
A half-baked cake. A half-baked decision is as good as a half-baked cake. No one can eat the cake. It's a waste of the ingredients. And, unless we throw it away, it keeps taking up unnecessary space in the refrigerator. Better to start afresh and bake the cake until it'
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Two truths and a lie. This is a popular game where we are given 3 sentences out of which only 2 are true. The game is to find out the lie. Can we play this game with the critical voice inside our heads? Can we ask: Which one's the truth? Which is the
The best version of you. What does your best version look like? What do you see? Who do others see in you that you don't see? How can you see yourself more like your best version? The more we start seeing ourselves as our best version, the more we become that.
The harsh and critical voice. It can be harsh towards us... and it can be harsh towards others. Sometimes vocally... but mostly within our heads. The more we listen to this voice... the more powerful it becomes. The alternative is to listen to the kind voice, the adult voice, the forgiving voice that enables us
Minimum, not maximum. There is hardly any sphere where maximum is more effective than minimum. The smallest viable audience (This is Marketing, Seth Godin) helps you make remarkable products. The minimum lovable product (Lovability, Brian de Haaff) helps you ship faster and more consistently. The minimum to-do list, the "Done for the
One complete action step... ...no matter how small, gives you the feeling of DONE, of shipping. And makes it more likely that you will get the next one done too. When overwhelmed by the complexity of the work in front of you, figure out the next action step and focus on getting it done.
Dark resistance and memory. The trick dark resistance plays on us is that it makes us forget the best versions of ourselves. Not only that, it makes us believe that the best versions of ourselves is not us, it's someone else. If we start embracing the fact that our best version is
Fear you don't need... Excerpt From Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert: ...you do not need your fear in the realm of creative expression. Seriously, you don’t. Just because you don’t need your fear when it comes to creativity, of course, doesn’t mean your fear won’t show up. Trust me, your
As you are... "As you are" is good enough. Being kind, compassionate, respectful, and loving is good enough. When we stop comparing, we learn to accept ourselves as we are. The more we do that, the more we can grow.
Love (and acceptance) We all want to feel accepted. We all want to feel loved. We can start by accepting ourselves. We can start by loving ourselves. That's the hard part.
The next one... Once you ship a project, the anxiety about how it's doing, how it's being perceived, and what you could have done better can take over... ...which is not useful because now the work is shipped. You can't do much about it. What you can
Without shame or judgement... We carry many unresolved issues in our subconscious because we are afraid that if we share them with others, they would judge us or we would feel ashamed. The more we carry these issues around, the heavier they become and the more they affect our lives adversely. There are three
What's on my MacBook? Inspired by MKBHD's series of videos on "What's in his bag?" Purple.Space - If you ever dreamed of having a global community of creators supporting you to work on your dreams, you may have been dreaming about purple space. Founded by Seth Godin,
There's no rush. Don’t jump from one crisis to another. Breathe... Appreciate if one crisis is over, or at least you have taken some action to move forward. Breathe… There’s no rush. When you stop rushing, you start seeing that it doesn't need to be a crisis.
Putting a number to it If you don’t put a number on it, you are not on the hook. For instance, “I will comment on 3 posts” is different than “I want to be active on social media.” “I will do one push up a day” is different than “I want to work out
Putting light on dark resistance Dark resistance will keep affecting our life if we let it remain in the dark. It will not be easy to put light on it, to share what it says when we are alone, to face our fears. But unless we are willing to change the light bulb in the
Being uncomfortable is the point. If you do not wish to be uncomfortable, why are you here? In this class, in this gym, in this space? If you are here to only show what you already know, then you are not going to learn. Learning requires letting go of what you already know, being vulnerable
Overcoming Dark Resistance Dark resistance is different from light resistance. Light resistance is when you keep fiddling with the phone rather than writing your thesis. Dark resistance goes deep. It strikes at your root, your existential fears and beliefs. It creates an illusion where you start believing what it says as the truth.
Getting out of a slump. First of all, wear your best clothes, even if you are not going to meet anyone today. Spend time in the morning sunlight, or even afternoon one, for at least 20 minutes (with a timer). Remove your blue-cut glasses if you are wearing any. Listen to Audible (War of Art
